A Summary of Affirmation
Affirmation is a love word that touches the heart with the truth of the worth you see.
Words of affirmation give the other person—our spouse, children, or friend—a sense of significance in their identity, protect them from self-protection, and are personally and relationally dynamic. An honest appreciation elicits a desire to please the person expressing appreciation. This is why being genuine about our appreciation is essential, for you may get more of whatever you compliment. I.e., love received elicits love in response.
Find your significance in Christ, love one another, and take the opportunity to affirm others.